If you are lucky, you will live long enough on this planet for your hair to start graying. It could start rather early (like my 11 year old who as a few grays) or much older (like finding your first gray at 40). Either way, it’s something else new to deal with. I say something else because many of us are still learning about our Natural hair so this is something new to the mix.
I have quite a few grays around my temples and the back of my neckline. I blame my son for that! I haven’t been worrying about them since I went Natural almost 7 years ago, but I know eventually I’ll have to work with them as they creep up all over my head. I’ve never been one for coloring so I don’t think I’ll be dying my hair to hide them and it’s better to know as much as possible about them early.
I came across this article on Naturallycurly.com a few days ago and thought it was insightful and wanted to share:
“What causes gray hairs in the first place? Your body produces a protein called melanin, which allows your hair to grow in (at the root) through melanin-filled cells. At some point (usually in your early 30s, though it can happen much sooner), your body stops producing this protein, resulting in a lack of melanocytes. Your melanocytes share melanin with keratinocytes, which produce keratin. When the keratinocytes die off, they still hold onto the melanin, which means they’re hanging onto your hair color. As a result, new hair that grows in has no pigment and presents itself as gray or white.
In laymens terms: your hair passes through melanin-filled cells as it comes in. When those cells no longer retain melanin (because it’s being hogged up by something — keratinocytes — that is dying), the hair has no pigment to pass through as it comes in, so it comes through gray. (This means that your hair doesn’t suddenly “change” into a gray shade; your new hairs are growing in gray.)
This gray hair, lacking in melanin and keratin, is very dry and coarse. For straighties, this often means they suddenly get hair that sticks out, flies away, or curls near the roots. For curlies, it usually means having hair that gets bumped up a level in type (i.e. type 3s start growing in hair that more closely resembles type 4). However, some curlies get shocked with gray hairs that are nearly straight and look nothing like the hair they’ve come to know and love!
Embrace the Gray?
Some people, usually men, view gray hairs as a sign of seniority and say that it gives them a “distinguished” look. Women, on the other hand, are usually horrified. Tolerating gray hair is one thing, but embracing gray hair is quite another! Nonetheless, at some point you’ll have to accept what you cannot change. Remember, chemical hair dyes are not natural!
Glowing in Gray
The solution for your newfound grays depends on what you’re dealing with once they make an appearance. If you’re going from wavy to curly or from curly to coily, consider adding more moisture-rich products to your hair care routine. The more curl your hair has, the more porous it tends to be. Gray hairs are more dry on their own, regardless of curl pattern or lack thereof. Additionally, some curlies seem to have the frizzies under control until the gray hairs takes over the majority of their hair. However, until your whole head is gray, which can take decades, you probably don’t need to go on a full-on quest to find a totally new regimen.
If you’re now dealing with random straight hairs or patches of somewhat straight hair, try scrunching it along with your regular hair. Treat it the same way you do the rest of your hair and see if you can’t convince it to cooperate.“Naturallycurly.com
Moisture, moisture, moisture seems to be the key for working with your grays. They aren’t taking over yet but when they do I’ll be remembering these tips.
Staying lovely Naturals,
I know gray hair has different texture because my gray hairs are coarser and really like to stick out. Some are bone straight and some are super curly.
Mine are acting like the rest of my hairs for the moment. They may be waiting for the rest of the crew take over before they start acting up! Either way it was good to see what was necessary to get them acting right. I don't wanna color my hair so I gotta pay close attention. LOL
I have only one strand of gray hair on my head. Actually, it's not even gray, I think it's white. It's right at the front of my hair where everyone can see it (seriously??!) It is definitely looks and feels coarser than my other hairs, but the curl pattern is no different than the rest of my hair. So strange, lol!
Isn't that funny? Right out front just there for all the world to see. That's where I found my first one too. It preoccupied me so the others could creep in unannounced. Sneaky bastards! LOL. I haven't noticed the difference in textures but I'm sure that will come about soon enough.
Do gray curls have their own hair type? YES!!!! OMG, YES!! They may not even curl . . . how 'bout dat?
Can you tell this post hit home? LOL!!
Girllllll….I am salt and pepper. My greys are not grey but white! It is a bit shocking. I feel like I got up one morning and it was all over my head. I mean there isn't one spot its not! Am like damnnnn…
Sometimes i use a rinse, those 24 shampoos ones so it washes out. I have experience more dryness as you indicated and the ends has begun to spilt and knot. It definitely changes.
Have I embraced it totally? Not really, and how I feel about it depends on my day.
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