I was bothered by some comments that I'm a little surprised at as well a little hurt. I know I shouldn't wear my heart on my sleeve but just because I have a blog doesn't mean my feelings never get hurt or I'm oblivious to harsh words. Having a blog just means I have something to say and want to say it to more than just one person.
It actually happened on FB but it was a comment on one of my posts. I was shocked with the first statement or comment made asking if my hair was growing. I was taken aback at first but just answered that it was growing but I have tons of shrinkage. The response after that was 'yeah, yeah, yeah.'
Really? My response warranted that answer? I was kinda put off and my first thought was to lash back by deleting this person. I wasn't going to get into a fight on FB although I've seen many. I merely wrote back that I didn't understand her comment and when she responded she said she meant nothing by it.
I could merely have been having a bad day but where is this sensitive little girl wrapped up in a 41 year old woman? She's right with me all the time. Why did she decide to surface? Shit if I know!
Now that I have a blog I am open for all to see and they can see my accomplishments as well as my failures.
Am I being overly sensitive? Am I reading too much into her comment? Not sure, but I am sure about one thing.....it kinda stung whether she meant anything by it or not.
Whatever the reason for her words I must say that I do battle with shrinkage and my hair has grown. I've never really done a length check but I decided last month that I would start and use a ruler and count the inches as well as using the chart that everyone is familiar with. The length check was in a post last week.
I must say I'm not totally sure why it bothered me and writing things down can sometimes help me think a little clearer, but I'm sure she meant nothing by it just like she stated. Just sharing how even a blogger can have sensitivity issues.
Brushing it off my shoulders Naturals,